Why put a label on it?

11/05/2013 15:21

Labels...we see them everywhere, it is on a can of food... on the clothes we wear. It defines what something is...but ask yourself, why label it? I'm one of those people that like to define everything with a label... I'm like any other girl who wants to label her boyfriend as a boyfriend and not just a friend. After talking to my ex boyfriend I've come to terms that maybe labeling isn't as important as I thought it was. Why can't we girls understand that boyfriends are just like guy friends just without the label 'boyfriend'.

They are still willing to:

  1. Be the shoulder that we need to cry on
  2. Be your cuddle buddy 
  3. Be there for everything you need them for
  4. Most importantly be your best friend

Those things and more are exactly what a friend does the only difference is the label boyfriend. So I ask... can we do without labels?